At first I found the cash envelope system very hard to maintain and really frustrating. Mainly because I was so used to using my debit card all of the time. It did take some time to crack not using my debit cards and really annoying when you see something that you just want. But the cash envelope system has helped me to stop impulse buying and then regretting later.
I have realised that if I see something that I really want, within a few days I normally feel pleased that I did not buy it. If after a few days I still want it, then i save up and purchase with cash at a later date.
Plus I did not like the idea of leaving my cards at home incase of any emergencies. So to reduce this fear, if I have a long distance journey to make, then I do keep by cards tucked out of the way, just in case.
This does defeat the object of cash envelope system, but at times it is important to have that peace of mind when you are away.
Although I keep to my household budget, using the cash envelope system has given me more control. I no longer think that it does not matter spending the odd £1 or £2 here and there. With only carrying cash I can no longer do this. I tend to save my excess money and treat us to a movie night or a meal out after about 6 months.
It enables me to feel settled that all of my household bills are paid, and I do not need to worry about over spending and not having any money at the end of the month.